Flowers of Love: Which Flowers Should You Give to Say “I Love You”?
There are a thousand and one ways to say “I love you,” but few gestures have the poetic power of a bouquet. Giving flowers is a way to convey a message that is both universal and deeply personal. Each variety carries with it a story, a symbolism, and a nuance of emotion that enriches the declaration.
At Sessile, we like to remind people that seasonal, locally grown, and carefully cultivated flowers make these messages even more special…
Why are flowers the universal symbol of love?
Since ancient times, flowers have been a part of declarations of love. The Greeks associated the rose with Aphrodite, the goddess of love, while the Romans made it an essential adornment for romantic celebrations. Later, in the 19th century, the language of flowers (floriography) codified these symbols: giving a flower became a subtle way to express one’s feelings without words.
Even today, a bouquet of flowers given as a token of love is never just a trivial gesture. It appeals to our instincts, our collective memory, and its immediate beauty. More than just a gift, it becomes a true vehicle for emotions….
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Which flowers symbolize love in the language of flowers?
Each flower symbolizes a different facet of love: fiery passion, faithful tenderness, and understated elegance. By choosing the right variety, you can personalize your message and make it truly unique.
The Red Rose: Passion and Eternal Desire
A classic among classics, the red rose remains the ultimate symbol of passionate love. It expresses the fire of desire and the strength of a deep attachment. Giving a red rose is a way of declaring your love unequivocally.
The red tulip: sincere and lasting love
Less common than the rose, the red tulip symbolizes the sincerity of feelings. It represents a love that is strong, faithful, and enduring. Ideal for celebrating a long-term couple, it exudes a simple, warm elegance.
The Orchid: Sensuality and Refinement
With its delicate and sophisticated form,the orchid is a tribute to seduction. It evokes rare beauty and mysterious elegance, and is the perfect choice for a refined gesture.
The lily: purity of feelings and nobility
Whether white or colored, the lily symbolizes the grandeur of emotions. It is a flower that inspires respect, purity, and depth of feeling. Perfect for a message that is both noble and sincere.
The Camellia: Admiration and Faithful Love
Less well-known but uniquely beautiful, the camellia is the flower of faithful love. When red, it symbolizes discreet passion; when white, it evokes admiration and elegance.
The peony: a promise of happy love
With its large petals, the peony is often associated with prosperity and happiness in love. It is highly prized at weddings as a symbol of joy and longevity.
The Red Carnation: Deep Affection and Discreet Passion
The redcarnation, more understated than the rose, delicately expresses deep feelings. It is well-suited for more intimate, sincere, and lasting declarations of love.
Other flowers associated with love: violets, forget-me-nots, etc.
The violet embodies modesty and romantic reserve, while the forget-me-not symbolizes fidelity with its famous “forget-me-not.” These small floral gestures reinforce subtle and delicate messages of love.
On what occasions should you give flowers as a token of love?
Love isn't just for one day a year—it thrives on regular gestures. Giving flowers as a token of love is a way to convey your message, whether on a special occasion or in everyday life.
Valentine's Day
A must-celebrate occasion, Valentine's Day remains the most symbolic time to give a romantic bouquet.
An anniversary of when you first met or of your wedding
Celebrating a couple’s milestones with flowers that symbolize enduring love adds a special meaning to these occasions.
A marriage declaration or proposal
What could be more memorable than a proposal accompanied by a carefully chosen bouquet? Flowers of love then become the perfect accompaniment to this unique moment.
Keeping the Flame Alive Every Day
A bouquet given for no particular reason is sometimes the most heartfelt gesture of love. It surprises, touches the heart, and keeps the magic alive…
How do you choose the right flower to give as a token of love?
Choosing a flower to express love depends on the message you want to convey. A red rose symbolizes passion, a tulip symbolizes loyalty, and an orchid symbolizes refinement. But you should also consider the personality of the recipient: some will prefer traditional symbols, while others will enjoy being surprised by an original variety.
Finally, choosing seasonal and locally grown flowers adds a sense of responsibility and sincerity to your gesture. Giving a bouquet is also a conscious choice that shows respect for nature.
Sessile: Local, socially conscious flowers to say “I love you”
At Sessile, we believe that a bouquet of love is even more meaningful when it carries a special message. All of our bouquets are created by a network of talented artisan florists, using seasonal flowers that are grown locally whenever possible.
Giving a Sessile bouquet is both a declaration of love and a way to support a responsible approach that values artisanal craftsmanship and respects our environment.
Who are we?
Sessile champions the independence of artisan florists online. Founded in 2019 by six friends, Sessile brings together 500 florists committed to transforming the industry and enables flower delivery throughout France, Belgium, and Luxembourg. By breaking away from the traditional online catalog model, the network highlights each florist’s expertise and helps keep the art of floristry alive. Florists can pursue their passion and create more creative bouquets because they have greater freedom to offer seasonal flowers and, whenever possible, locally sourced flowers.
